Pay Attention To What Your Kids Want From You – Singer Waje Tells Parents
Singer Waje has cautioned parents to be listening to what their kids want from them and not always what they want to give their kids if they truly love them like that says.
Waje believes parents need to give their kids voices therefore has advised them to be listening to their kids and know what they want from them and not that they always give them what they think they need and is best for them.
According to Waje, almost every parent claims to love their kids and surely they do but if these kids can’t recognize what you do as love then you are basically just grooming another damaged being into society.
Waje then added that no one should misunderstand her post as all she’s trying to say is that parents should pay attention to what their kids need from them and do it for them and not only give them what want or think is best for them praying that God protects all kids.
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Waje’s post reminds us that as parents we don’t just have to be doing what we think is best or what we think our kids need but rather we have to listen to them and know what they want from us to be able to recognize what we do as love for them and not damage their love for us.
Most African parents are fond of always doing what they think is love for their kids forgetting that at some point in time the kids would want something from them and don’t create that space for them to be able to tell them what they want from them and that is what Waje has drawn our attention to.